34 Sexy Gifts That Are Guaranteed to Spice Up Your Relationship
Only the best vibrators, kinky toys and lingerie for the naughtiest person on your Valentine's Day shopping list.
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If giving and physical touch are their love languages, we've got some sexy gifts for you.
Surprising your partner with a sexual gift isn't just about getting them into bed — it's also a thoughtful way to bond and show you're considering their wants, needs and desires. You can gift your special person a new sex toy, a piece of sensual lingerie, a scented candle that doubles as massage oil or even a silly romantic game that encourages cuddling.
When searching for gift ideas this intimate, it's important to keep their personality and preferences in mind. The goal is to have fun and bring you closer together as a couple, all while making sure your gift is well received.
Below, we've carefully selected some of our favorite sexy Valentine's Day gifts, which are intended to set the mood and add a little something to the act itself. Some presents on this list were even vetted by the Good Housekeeping Institute, so you know there's an item here that will fit the bill. And don't forget to aim for a dose of romance, too! As you gear up for Valentine's Day, feel free to browse our roundup of the best romantic gifts for your partner.
Whether you've been together for two weeks or two decades, we could all use a little inspiration in bed. This boxed game is fun, sexy and just the right amount of cheesy to loosen things up.
Perfect for when she can't get the real thing, this silicone clitoral licking vibrator has 10 different modes and two different functions to keep her pleased. It's also quiet and can be used for up to 50 minutes after a two-hour charge.
She'll enjoy wearing this polyester babydoll slip just as much as you enjoy looking at her in it. With over 18,000 five-star reviews on Amazon, purchasers share that it's "comfortable," "good quality for the money" and is "very flattering." Plus, it comes in 32 different flattering colors and prints.
Light bondage, but make it fashion. Once they wear this stylish and sexy nipple and clitoris clamp chain out to dinner on date night, we bet they'll end up having, ahem, something off-the-menu for dessert.
If you've always wanted to try pegging, this four-piece set has everything you need. It comes with two dildos of different sizes, a harness and bullet vibe. Just add your favorite lube and you're ready to open new horizons.
This hands-free sex toy will give any couple hours of fun. It'll stay secure during sex for an intense experience neither of you will forget.
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While partnered sex is great, there's nothing wrong with her indulging in a little solo pleasure from time to time. At under $17, you can't go wrong with this handy little bullet with 10 different vibrations. It's also waterproof, perfect if they'd like to use it in the bathtub for even more fun.
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This soothing massage oil, with notes of sandalwood and cardamom, will really get you both in the mood. It's also safe for internal use and will last up to 24 months unopened. Not bad for under $20!
While you might not always be around to satisfy her, this thrusting dildo will come in as a close second. It offers 10 vibrations, five pulse modes and seven thrust modes, with a waterproof design that can be taken into the bathtub and shower.
Get her revved up with this pearl thong, which is great for foreplay. Made of nylon and spandex, it comes in nine different colors, and Amazon reviewers like its comfort, fit and appearance.
The winner in our best vibrators roundup, experts and testers loved this model's soft head. It can be used for up to three hours when fully charged, but if they decide to leave it plugged in, it'll run even longer.
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Go for this piece of wearable tech that will keep her in the mood all day long. Designed like a necklace, the "pendant" is actually a small personal vibrator that can be easily switched on and off. Now that's what we call a sexy gift!
There are two types of people in this world: Those who are always trying to start a game of truth or dare and those who would rather walk into the ocean fully clothed. This sexy version of the game might just help the former get the latter on board, though.
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Turn a sexy massage into a sensual experience with this handheld massager with 10 different settings. It'll get the knots out of your S.O.'s shoulders without torturing yours.
Even people with penises who think they don't like sex toys might find themselves persuaded by this disposable stroker. It's perfect for testing the waters, since it's low-cost and meant to last only a few uses.
No complicated rules, no long-winded instructions, just 50 conversation cards that run the gamut from spicy to downright naughty. Whether you've been together for a year or a lifetime, these will get you talking — and probably more.
Made from soft and flexible silicone, these handcuffs are perfect for both beginners and longtime restraint play enthusiasts. Bonus: There's no key to misplace.
You don't have to be a natural-born artist to make something beautiful with this naughty paint kit. Just lay out the giant canvas and get to work painting each others' bodies. Before you can say "yes, right there!," you've got a sexy piece of art for your bedroom wall.
Keep things interesting with this hilarious playbook that includes 366 positions along with suggested accessories (stethoscope, cowboy hat, you get the idea) and side effects (leg cramps, uncontrollable giggles). It's a great gift for your sweetie or a fun gift idea for a bachelor or bachelorette party.
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Instead of a bouquet of roses, give your sweetie this rose-shaped clitoral suction stimulator that creates a similar sensation to oral sex. It's just as much fun solo as with a buddy.
Cailey Lindberg (she/her) is a writer and editor with over a decade of experience covering products, lifestyle, entertainment and food. Before joining Good Housekeeping in 2022, she was a staff writer at USA Today's shopping network, Reviewed.com.
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